“11 It says if you want to have a happy marriage be the kind of person who generates positive energy and sidesteps negative energy rather than empowering it. If you want to have a more pleasant cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, empathic, consistent, loving parent. If you want to have more freedom, more latitude in your job, be a more responsible, a more helpful, a more contributing employee. If you want to be trusted, be trustworthy. If you want the secondary greatness of recognized talent, focus first on primary greatness of character.”