“We tend to overestimate other people's abilities after all they're trying hard to make it look as if they knew what they were doing and tend to underestimate our own. You must compensate for this by trusting yourself more and others less. It is important to remember though that being self reliant does not mean burdening yourself with petty details. You must be able to distinguish between small matters that are best left to others and larger issues that require your attention and care.”